
There are some stories that ask us to slow down. To listen more carefully. To remember that behind every headline, every report, every process, there is a life that was lived fully, and a family that continues to carry that love forward.
Heather Winterstein was one of those lives.
She was a young Indigenous woman, a member of the Cayuga Nation with ties to Six Nations. She was described by her family as someone who loved deeply and moved through the world with a quiet strength. She had a passion for the arts and for nature, and those who knew her speak of her gentleness, her kindness, and the way she connected with others.
When her aunt speaks about her, she does not begin with how Heather died. She begins with how she lived. A beautiful person, inside and out. Someone who spoke softly, who cared deeply, who mattered.
That is where we must begin too.
Because too often, Indigenous lives are reduced to moments of crisis. Stories are told through systems, through reports, through outcomes, and in that telling, something essential is lost. The fullness of a person’s life. Their relationships. Their spirit.
Heather’s life deserves to be held in its entirety.
At the same time, her death cannot be separated from the systems she encountered. In December 2021, Heather sought care at a hospital in St. Catharines while experiencing severe pain. She was assessed and discharged. She returned the following day in worsening condition. Within hours, she collapsed. Despite efforts to save her, she died.
Her death was later determined to be caused by sepsis.
For her family, the grief has been profound and ongoing. But alongside that grief has been something else. A commitment to ensuring that what happened to Heather is not dismissed, not minimized, and not repeated.
Her family has continued to ask questions. They have continued to seek understanding. And they have continued to advocate, not only for Heather, but for others who may face similar experiences.
That advocacy has led to the upcoming coroner’s inquest into Heather’s death.
But before that process begins, her family and community are coming together in another way.
On March 26, all are welcome to join in honouring Heather’s life at Sessions On The River in an uplifting gathering rooted in love, remembrance, and community. The evening will bring together family, friends, and local artists to celebrate Heather’s life through music, prayer, and shared presence.
The gathering begins with a memorial service at 6pm, followed by a concert in her honour. Doors open at 5pm, and admission is free. Those attending are invited to wear pink for Heather, a simple but meaningful way to stand together in her memory.
This is more than an event. It is a moment of coming together in a good way. A space to pray for guidance, for Heather’s spirit, for her family, and for the inquest process ahead. A space to hold one another, to reflect, and to move forward with intention.
In the spirit of peace and truth, the community will gather not only to remember Heather, but to honour her through action. To ensure that her story continues to call for something better.
Because that is what her life, and her legacy, asks of us.
As this process unfolds, it is important that we remember her in a good way. Not only through the circumstances of her death, but through the fullness of who she was. A daughter, a niece, a community member, a young woman whose life had meaning.
We carry her name forward with care.
And in doing so, we also carry a responsibility. To listen. To learn. And to ensure that her story contributes to the change her family continues to call for.



